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January 31, 2006

D/s and Guilt

Psychology Of Domination

How guilt is affected by my D/s relationship with Richard

January 30, 2006

A Personal Perspective

Inner Growth

On myself, and what D/s means to me, and how it fits into overall personality and juxtaposes against common expectations (with knobs on).

Who Wears The Trousers?

Psychology Of Domination

This was my reply to a thread discussing the possibility that the submissive is in fact the one who has the 'upper hand' or calls the shots in a relationship. It turned out so long I figured it deserved to be an entry.

January 21, 2006

Another Thought

Fun

What it says on the tin

Cheap Shots or Lazy Readers?

People

I can't tell which is which

January 20, 2006

Sharing Nuances

Psychology Of Domination

On my protective and sense of ownership of my pet.

Expanding My Territory

Headspaces

I know everything I do well, so now I want to expand my D/s horizons

January 19, 2006

Awakening

Headspaces

I'm beginning to miss playing with my plaything and pet. It took me a while to miss D/s

Extraordinary Weblog

Links

A link to a F/f relationship weblog.

January 17, 2006

Exposing Myself

Inner Growth

Exposing my D/s side as I discover it can be emotionally challenging and almost scary at times.

January 16, 2006

Excellent Fetish Map

Links

A link to an excellent fetish map.

Visions of Boredom

Headspaces

What does it mean if your slave looks bored?

January 15, 2006

Procrastinatrix vs. Dominatrix

Misc

Using my inner Domme on myself to make myself a better person

January 14, 2006

Thorn In My Side

Inner Growth

A more in-depth look into what happens when you get crossed wires in a D/s relationship

On Forcing Myself to Write

Headspaces

On fighting the simple barrier mechanism which tries to prevent me writing about my erotic fantasy life and my dark and kinky side.

Tales of the Unremarkable

People

Sometimes I wonder what the cause of 'false submissive' emails is. Do they not try hard enough, or are they simply barking up the wrong tree? Maybe they just need advice?

January 6, 2006

Mismatched Desires - From My Side

Headspaces

The complications of combining 'normal' and kinky relations examined in more detail.