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May 23, 2007

Icy Hot CBT

BDSM Practices

Chemical CBT with Icy Hot

Not All Is Doom And Gloom

Our relationship

A nice day of S+M, and some new ideas for hitching points.

May 22, 2007

Kinky Kollapse

Setbacks

More S+M going wrong shenanigans.

May 21, 2007

It's All About The *ME*

Psychology Of Domination

Looking back on how my self-importance shaped my dominant streak in the past and present.

May 18, 2007

Fear Of The Drop

Headspaces

The threat of topdrop, not something I've come to know too well, but I tasted it the other day.

What I'd Like From An Extended Session

Communication

We are planning to do an extended BDSM scene. Pet has asked for me to list my thoughts so here they are.

May 17, 2007

Male Suffering in Song

Headspaces

Sexy songs about men who are sad, at their wit's end, or in some form of anguish, tickle my sadistic spot in a pleasant way.

Emotional Sadism

Headspaces

Emotional sadism is the counterpart to emotional masochism. It is the desire to cause emotional pain in a controlled way (rather like how corporal punishment causes physical pain)

May 14, 2007

Pet's Daily Caning

Evolution of Our Relationship

Pet asks for a ritualized caning every day when he gets in from work.

May 11, 2007

Obsessed? Me?!

Headspaces

Am I too obsessed with causing pain and humiliation? Too obsessed with erotic power exchange?

Hateful Little Wheel

Sensual Pleasures

What a wartenburg wheel feels like on myself.

May 9, 2007

Wartenburg Wheel

Sensual Pleasures

Awaiting the arrival of my new Wartenburg wheel.

May 8, 2007

Aftercare For The Dominant

Headspaces

Dominants need aftercare too!

May 7, 2007

Pissed Off

Setbacks

A sadomasochistic trainwreck involving urolagnia - the drinking of the dominant's piss/urine

May 5, 2007

Because The Human Footstool Is Aesthetically Pleasing...

Pictures

Another human footstool pic.

Yay For Pet!

Misc

Pet crawls for me despite his discomfort.

What Have I Become?

Inner Growth

What does it feel like to be a transsexual dominatrix?

I feel like I want pet to feel one day

Setbacks

Got pain? I have.