In Praise of Domme-Wear
• Attire
I must say, I like being worshipped wearing everyday clothes. It feels very powerful to be able to evoke those feelings without any of the stereotypical attire that can boost D/s feelings.
But while some kinksters dislike Domme-Wear, complain that it’s uncomfortable, etc, I must admit I have a soft spot for much of it. The power of costume is one of the true feminine delights. But there’s something deeper than that which I realized the other day.
When I see or wear these clothes, it instantly makes me think of humiliating, downtreading, and hurting men. There is an instant archetypal connection which is very deep-rooted, and seeing these kinky clothes with their artfully inspiring and Dominant-looking curves and quirks, makes me happy and somewhat enthusiastic :)
Some of it can be less than totally comfortable, but I rarely notice that. Probably the adrenaline rush and racing imagination blocks it out, plus if I feel any moderate or above discomfort I can always change into something else.
Goddess bless the clever people who design this stuff!
Comments
I am so curious what your have in mind… corsets? latex?
Posted by: vpup | March 9, 2007 9:11 AM
I wasn’t thinking of anything specific. I love PVC, leather, rubber, extreme heels (though very high stilettos are too confining for most of me), pretty much everything kinky and of course mostly all black :)
I’ve never worn a corset. Oh actually I tell a lie, I have one somewhere, I wore it once and it made me feel pretty good (asin bad ;). I should try it again sometime.
Posted by: Alexandra | March 10, 2007 10:48 AM