Yes, We Did It
• BDSM Happenings
A few days ago we broke the status quo (I really hope I don’t get hits from that) and did some kinky play type stuff. We both had a small amount of performance anxiety so we started off by just looking at all the toys and things we have.
When I put his collar on he slipped down into subspace, but since I had nothing planned and was six months out of practice, I was glad to see him come up a bit soon (after some impromptu boot torture/worship of course).
Then I had him lay on the floor on his rug and whipped and flogged him. I really felt out of practice, but still enjoyed it - though it was a little daunting. I forgot just how much skill, experience and practice it takes to use the various instruments effectively.
I also tried whipping his upper back which is something I don’t think I do an awful lot of - it feels somehow stranger and more dangerous, but he seemed to enjoy it.
Then I got out the bondage rope - something I’m not very experienced with, tied up his wrists and ankles tightly and had him kneel on a pillow bent over the couch, where I proceeded to use most of the instruments on him for a more extended period of time.
I was sweating and exhausted at the end of all that, and it left me feeling a little out of practice. At times I was concentrating too much on technique to feel the erotic charge I am used to, but it was a relief to have a recent experience to think about and sleep on.
Comments
It sounds like you both had a wonderful time.
Time between sessions becomes irrelevant once both parties are able to slip into their Domme or sub-space. Then everything will start to fall back into it’s proper place and the enjoyment begins. It is what makes sessions so magical to Me.
Posted by: Mistress Kika | April 8, 2006 11:07 PM
I was a little daunted but you are right, it comes flooding back like riding a bike, once you really get into it :) - see my latest entry.
Posted by: Alexandra | April 9, 2006 7:56 PM
I spend very little time on my pet’s upper back; I am most interested by his chest, butt, and inner thighs (usually quite sensitive).
He has a lovely upper back and I suppose I really should pay more attention to it. Since we do not cut together, I suppose this means working on my flogging technique.
Posted by: R | April 15, 2006 6:46 PM