Fetish Alphabet: O and P
• Fetishes
Oral-Anal Play (rimming): I’m crazy about this. Though it doesn’t have particularly D/s connotations to it in it’s-self, telling someone to do it generally feels domme, whereas when the guy voluntarily does it, it feels more ‘vanilla’. But really I’m never paying that much attention to the implications because it feels so nice.
Persona training (in scene): I take it this is along the lines of what we did with the protocol arrangement. It’s fun but can be tiring for extended periods of time.
Piercing (play, temporary): It does little for me as I think of it right now. I can see the appeal and the loss of control and feeling of invasion that it would produce.
Piss (drinking): I’ve only done this with my casual slave friend. I enjoyed the feeling it gave me. I haven’t been in a hurry to do this with richard so I guess I’m not exactly an obsessive. When the time comes with richard I’m sure we’ll both enjoy it ;)
Pissed on: I’m sure I’ve covered this before. I enjoy it and find it empowering, though richard isn’t that phased by it since he associates it with voluntary piss play a.k.a. golden showers. Another little challenge for me - to get him to see it a different way.
Pony play: Richard needs to develop his knee strength before we do this more extensively, but it’s something we’d both really like. I see it as the next level up from ‘doggy play’.
Prison scenes: I can’t see myself doing this. Like I have said before my acting skills aren’t brilliant and I’m not sure our locale would enable the right suspension of belief to permit us to feel we were in a prison. Maybe when we get some available ‘dungeon space’ we can do something similar, but without the acting and scenario.
Punishment: This is so vague that I guess it must mean the actual act of doing something sadistic for the cause of correction. Any sadistic thing you can do with a masochist could be either a mutually enjoyed game, or a punishment. It is the ability to punish the masochist and his need/want/fear of punishment that adds the extra dynamic to D/s and evelates it above a simple, symmetrical arrangement. In particular what I get out of punishing (as opposed to doing things for the hell of it or because we both enjoy it), is the chance to feel and shape my anger. Sounds like something out of a bad therapy session but it works for me.
Compare with P.
Comments
Persona training - I’ve been having a fair number of fantasies about that but they sort of fizzle. Been meaning to write an entry about it.
Pony play: I think we can do more of that. Real weakness with my knees is when I try to sit as on ankle. Need to do more stretching.
Dungeon Space: the outbuilding is now clean. Looks weird.
“It is the ability to punish the masochist and his need/want/fear of punishment that adds the extra dynamic to D/s and evelates it above a simple, symmetrical arrangement.” - Wonderfully said.
Posted by: Richard | September 21, 2005 10:22 PM