Women Who DON'T Enjoy Having Their Feet Sucked
• Fetishes
I hear, from many sources, that there exist women who strongly dislike having their toes sucked or feet played with, licked, and adored in general.
How is this so?
I know sexuality is very personal and subjective, but surely nerve-endings are nerve-endings? The only part of my body that I disenjoy being touched are my sides (my left and right side at belly level) because they are extremely ticklish and it has the result of causing me to throw my limbs at the nearest person with force - and that is only if the surface area touching me is very small, such as a single finger… So I can only imagine, with empathy, that some people may have ticklish feet and dislike it for that reason.
Well, there is another reason, the psychological one, surely just as important as any nerve endings. Psychological reasons for disenjoying foot adoration may include not thinking it’s normal (and an overwhelming desire to worship and follow the God of Normality), an overpowering sense of hygene (feet are dirty but so is sex - if it’s any good!), or guilt associated with the apparent ‘power’ or ‘degradation’ of foot worship.
I hate being narrow-minded or feeling that way, so I’d love to hear from someone (female) who dislikes foot play so I can know what objections there could be. Is it just a form of frigidity or is there more to it?
This brings me onto why men might not want their feet touched, which many of them don’t. Not that I would argue with that!
Comments
well..having my feet touched is okay..but if someone has a light touch or tickles them i can’t stand it…but i do like the way my Owner touches them…& massages them..as He is nice & firm..but there’s so few people who can do a good foot massage..
when it comes to licking/sucking however,(& it’s not to do with hygene) i dislike it as it’s too ticklish & i hate the feeling of my toe being in someones mouth…just the sensations…its all “squidgy” (LOL) that really is the worst bit..it’s not even funny!
Although i’m not dominant, i do like the though of having a slave worship my feet in heels/boots…but not bare if there’s any sucking involved!
kajira{MJ}
Posted by: kajira{MJ} | October 18, 2006 5:12 PM
Well, Alexandra, what I find most interesting is that I adore having my sides (anywhere up and down them) in an erotic gesture.
But I also love having my feet played with, massaged, kissed. Not so much licked or sucked (same issue with the old “tongue in the ear” maneuver).
I always tell my callers, even the “vanilla” ones (don’t worry-I’m upping their kink quotient, on a case by case basis), that one way to ALWAYS please a woman is to “pay attention to her feet.”
It really is a major erogenous zone for most. I really wonder if that, for the ones who just don’t get it or can’t tolerate it, they experienced some sort of adolescent trauma (i.e. being held down and cruely tickled by a sibling).
Who knows?
Like you, I would love to hear from others on this.
Posted by: Angela St. Lawrence | October 26, 2006 5:48 AM
Thank-you both for your comments!
I quite like wet feelings in my toes (and ears too). I can just melt thinking about it (more with my feet than my ears, and no, not the thinking, the sucking!).
Angela, I found your reply quite interesting because while I agree that it’s lovely to be touched on the sides, as I have said - if the surface area is small (and I have no clothes to ‘protect’ me) I will get a bad reflex.
And I was certainly tickle-tortured by my older brother against my will for periods of time longer than I would have liked as a child. Since this pattern extended far beyond tickling (which was bad enough!) I no longer speak to him and have cut him out of my mind.
I haven’t had any feelings of limitation by this ticklishness - to me it’s unpleasant when it feels like a value going off the top of the graph (I can even tickle myself by running my fingertip lightly over my sides at navel level, but it’s worse when someone else does it) - it doesn’t prevent much of a sensual problem, it just means Richard has to be careful at times that I don’t headbutt him.
Though I can’t help but wonder if there’s a way to train it away.
Posted by: Alexandra | October 26, 2006 2:20 PM