Constructing Our Perfect D/s Agreement
First ideas towards the contract.
First ideas towards the contract.
The threat of topdrop, not something I've come to know too well, but I tasted it the other day.
Sexy songs about men who are sad, at their wit's end, or in some form of anguish, tickle my sadistic spot in a pleasant way.
Emotional sadism is the counterpart to emotional masochism. It is the desire to cause emotional pain in a controlled way (rather like how corporal punishment causes physical pain)
Am I too obsessed with causing pain and humiliation? Too obsessed with erotic power exchange?
Dominants need aftercare too!
Some jumbled thoughts on our frequent mini-play sessions of late, and the different types of pain and sadism which can occur.
The selfish and dark side to being a sensual sadist.
Shared bliss created by light pain and pleasure.
Finding the right honorific is an important first step in D/s ritual, though other honorifics may be employed to spice things up.
Kinky entertainment for when you can't quite go there in person.
I look forwards to teasing my love slave when he is locked in a chastity belt that only I can open.
My thoughts on being told what to do during sex, S+M and BDSM
I'm becoming more interested in forcing my pet to do things that used to squick me out a little bit.
The daydreams of a sadist
On the joys of human footstools.
The beginning of my hair lasering therapy gets me thinking about pain.
I have an online friend who likes to be trampled but doesn't like pain, objectification or humiliation.
We are having some trouble igniting our kinky, BDSM aspects since we have been reunited over two weeks ago.
A role reversal of sorts
I know everything I do well, so now I want to expand my D/s horizons
I'm beginning to miss playing with my plaything and pet. It took me a while to miss D/s
What does it mean if your slave looks bored?
On fighting the simple barrier mechanism which tries to prevent me writing about my erotic fantasy life and my dark and kinky side.
The complications of combining 'normal' and kinky relations examined in more detail.
How I percieve the states that I take my slave through in a typical D/s session.
The difference in my mind between acting and performing, and an explanation of how I feel about them both.
What correlation, if any, lies between sexual dominance and performance in everyday life?
Life's a bitch, so why aren't I being one?
My submissive clearly wants more, more, more... ;)
How lack of sleep and worrying about tricky decisions and things beyond my control can dull my sexual dominance and attitude in general.
One night my desire for being dominant completely stopped, in the middle of a D/s scene.
The loss of Richard's ex lover has sent our kink life slightly stale, but we are slowly coming to terms with the loss and preparing for the future.
When I am being dominant I like to explore the full range of dominance, from gentle control all the way to pure sadism.