Chastity and Teasing
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Having your man in chastity is one thing, but the other wonderful thing which has dawned on me is that I’ll be able to tease him rotten about it should I wish. Teasing is something I have a soft spot for and yet I haven’t really explored it fully within our sex life.
Knowing that teasing and mocking him and taking control of his sexuality will be like shooting fish in a barrel is a feeling that’s fulfilling just to anticipate. I feel like I’ve done most of the ‘work’ by simply being me, someone whom Richard wants to hand himself over so intimately to.
Teasing non-human pets is something I tend to have a ‘problem’ with (meaning, I probably do it too much!), though obviously I don’t do anything cruel or bad. I’m suprised to find I’ve hardly teased my male pet at all, especially given that sometimes I can be cruel and bad :)
The sort of teasing I do remember having done is sparse and light, like sarcastically asking if it (torment X) hurts and giving mock sympathy; an approach I seem to like a lot. But soon I can tease him without even doing anything to him, inside or outside a scene, and know I have him always in a way he can’t escape without my permission.