Late Night Relationship Therapy
• Our relationship
Last night we typed with each other in Google Talk until 4am my time. I think it was probably one of the most intensive exchanges we’ve had this year. Pet said he was beginning to feel able to carry on our D/s relationship in some way while we are apart by kneeling in front of a picture of me and other methods.
Egotism aside ;) I am so glad that he’ll be able to do this… For himself! I’ve noticed we sort of slip into role sometimes when we’re chatting, as well. I find that very reassuring and sexy.
Eventually we began discussing negative points of my last visit and where things had gone wrong for both of us. This includes how we treat ourselves as well as each other and is therefore potentially quite confusing to chat about online.
But I know we won the jackpot last night and managed to, for me anyway, unblock a few doubts that had been slowing us down in our sexual relationship - times when we let the other down in some way. It’s clear to me now that success is very much a relative thing. Unless you live in a comic-book fantasy there is always a potentially good mental tweak to be made.
Relationships are like computer programs in the sense that one line of bad code could cause perfectly intact data to be misinterpreted, never accessed or even destroyed. So discussing any ‘bugs’ in our interpersonal programming is a must.
It’s so wonderful to see Richard expanding his possibilities for joy, and to get to know him even more intimately.
Comments
Yeah, I love it so much when our chats work out that well. Love you.
Posted by: Richard | November 21, 2006 8:10 PM
Much as i often despair at our being apart, Mistress and i have often found that long chats on yahoo sometimes help us by taking a step back and thinking about things that have transpired between us. Long distance can be so difficult but i really do think that when we get together it is like a honeymoon every time. i hope that January comes quickly for you both. Take care
Posted by: jssubc | November 22, 2006 3:03 AM