Article on a Foot Fetish Party
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Here’s an interesting article on foot fetishism and trampling!
Harder, harder, he pleads, I can take it. They’re on the clock here, so whatever the customer wants; they rake painted toenails across his belly, crush their feet against his Adam’s apple and tromp the bulge in his jeans. In a sadistic grand finale, they leap up and down in unison as if double dutching. His ribs seem to crack in time to the techno shaking the walls upstairs. But Jones’ euphoric smile says it all.
Tromp the bulge! Now that made me laugh :)
One part I couldn’t understand:
Jen says the steep session cost and door fee weeds out “creeps” and undesirables. “These guys are doctors and lawyers, computer programmers, guys who can afford it. And I’m getting paid to have my feet pampered by them—it’s a pretty good deal.”
So having status and money is the only way to prove you’re not a creep? And of course, we all know people with money aren’t creepy. Michael Jackson is the walking proof of that… Teehee!
When I talk to Alanna, I get the same eye-roll treatment. “These guys are like, ‘Oh my god, your toes are so sexy,’ and I’m like just thinking about the money,” she says. “It’s weird, but whatever. So long as I don’t see their you-know-what.”
This is interesting. Which do you subs prefer, a woman who is indifferent to your actions or one who has the same passion? I can really see the appeal of both, so much so that sometimes acting indifferent can be very fun for me.
Comments
Being under the control of an aloof, indifferent dominant is a powerful image: it instantly objectifies you.
But I couldn’t get that thrill from a pro. I’d know I was paying a worker for a service.
Posted by: Richard | December 8, 2005 6:31 PM
Workaround: Pretend to be aloof and indifferent. I know for certain I can do aloof, indifferent may need some small work :)
Posted by: Alexandra | December 11, 2005 5:40 PM
Actually this has been on my mind quite a bit lately.
With you it would be a very powerful experience.
Posted by: Richard | December 11, 2005 11:21 PM
The rule of thumb is that for every 100 men with a given fetish, there is only one woman who has it. If that’s true, the odds of meeting a woman who genuinely enjoys trampling guys are very slim. Odds are she’s doing it for the money, or she’s doing it to please you, but not her own pleasure.
Posted by: Peter | December 30, 2005 8:55 AM
Hi,
I am new and enjoying this site. Thank you. I hope that this is the appropriate place to ask a question.
Quick Background Information-
My role for pleasure is sub. I am female and relatively new to kink. I enjoy the aesthetics and creativity of most kinks and a wide range physical and psychological sensations associated with the sub role. I have offered my 2 close Dom play partners the opportunity to play the sub role and I would be the dominant one but neither were interested. I suggested this because I wanted to offer them the pleasure I have but the idea doesn’t particularly appeal to me sexually. I am currently seriously considering playing the Domme role for pay.
So, I was interested in these 2 points of your discussion.
“Odds are she’s doing it for the money, or she’s doing it to please you, but not her own pleasure.” and “Being under the control of an aloof, indifferent dominant is a powerful image: it instantly objectifies you.
But I couldn’t get that thrill from a pro. I’d know I was paying a worker for a service.”
The reason I’m trying to find web sites such as yours is to get a sense of what a male subs ‘trip’ is. So,my question. If someone goes to a paid Domme would they prefer to think she is “an aloof, indifferent dominant” or doing it for her own pleasure? Can you generalize? Or do any other readers have input?
I will continue to enjoy your site and I imagine it will be helpful to me.
Thanks
Sex as Art
Posted by: Sex as Art | January 4, 2006 12:59 AM
I read several blogs by pros and was commenting elsewhere about this earlier today.
If a professional dominatrix is good at what she does she matches her style to the individual. Many men who see them bond to them strongly. They even develop affectionate friendships with them.
The most successful pros are certainly willing to be the aloof, frigid woman of power. But they insist on intelligent negotiation from their clients first.
And some men are just paying customers who pay their money, get their thrills and leave.
Depends on the two people.
Posted by: Richard | January 5, 2006 2:11 AM