Sharing Nuances
• Psychology Of Domination
Recently I have begun the practice of analysing my D side almost asif it were a seperate person with her own wants and desires. This makes a lot of feelings a lot more easy to understand and explain.
Today I decided to share a thought I kept private because I felt it was unimportant. One of my pet’s most popular threads is called “Make Me Your Plaything” and way back when he published it my initial reaction from my Dominant side was, “No, you are MY plaything, and nobody elses!”. I didn’t mention it because clearly he doesn’t mean it in a sexual or even D/s way, it’s just a fancy way of saying “Write us a scenario”. The emotional response was quick and primal, gone in a flash, but it means something.
I have a suspision that pet is pleased about this emotional attatchment I have in my Dominant core, I know that it certainly makes me very happy.
Comments
Yes.
The more that you feel that I am yours to do with as you will the happier I am.
So very happy.
Posted by: Richard | January 20, 2006 2:50 AM
As I read the blogs and web pages of dommes, one attitude seems common to many. I don’t know if it is just rhetoric designed to appeal to the masochistic side of subs, but it is tyrannical and disregards the feelings of the sub. Not all dommes seem to have that attitude, especially one with whom I have shared some ideas about female superiority. She has been very cordial and reasonable, while insisting on my respect. I believe a person can dominate another based on their natural and developed superior persona without having to resort to barbarism or brutality.
Posted by: Chuck P. | January 21, 2006 9:49 PM
Chuck,
Just in case it isn’t clear: Alexandra and I love each other passionately.
Not all human responses are triggered by reason: really precious few.
But reason often kicks in after the gut response.
I do enjoy Alexandra’s feeling of proprietorship but we actually spend most of our time outside of D/s.
She has a good sense of proportion. Which is one of the things that makes our time spent together so pleasurable.
Posted by: Richard | January 21, 2006 10:00 PM
I’m sorry but I can’t take female superiority or any ideas that one group of people or whatever is naturally superior. My relationship with Richard is an intimate and private thing quite exclusive to us and the only way to know about it is to read all of my words.
Your words however sound like you’ve jumped to conclusions and are coloured with politics.
Posted by: Alexandra | January 21, 2006 10:49 PM